Sleep deprivation is inevitable for new mamas Parents of a newborn will lose anywhere between 400-750 hours sleep in the first year alone.
Here’s my Top 5 Tips for Coping with Sleep Deprivation:
1. Guided Deep Relaxation (Yoga Nidra)
Don’t get put off by the name. Despite the word “yoga”, it’s as easy as lying on the floor or your bed and listening to a guided relaxation. Research suggests that a 20 minute Guided Deep Relaxation known as Yoga Nidra is equal to 3 hours sleep. During Yoga Nidra, your mind and body go into a state of deep relaxation unlike regular sleep so it’s the ultimate way to combat sleep deprivation.
Yoga nidra is for everyone including beginners, pregnant women and new mamas. You don’t need any props, but you can use an eye pillow or eye mask, a blanket and earphones to make yourself comfortable. If you’re pregnant and in your third trimester, lie on your side with a pillow between your knees and under your head.
Begin by lying on your bed or the floor. Turn your phone onto “Do Not Disturb” so you won’t be interrupted by a call, text or alert. Choose a yoga nidra from YouTube (search for “postnatal yoga nidra”), put your headphones on, cover your body with a blanket and your eyes with an eye pillow or eye mask, close your eyes and enjoy.
Best time to do it:
- When your little one has a nap.
- If your partner is home, ask them to play with your little one(s) while you do it in your bedroom with the door closed and earphones in.
- If you’re struggling to get through the afternoon and wondering how you’ll make it to bedtime, give your baby a toy or if they’re older let them watch an episode of Playschool while you do it nearby.
- If you’re the passenger in the car on a long road trip.
- If you get insomnia, do it before bed. It’ll help you fall asleep and improve the quality of your sleep.
2. Legs Up The Wall (viparita karani)
If you don’t have time for yoga nidra, this is a good second best way to cope with sleep deprivation. As the name suggests, it’s as easy as elevating your legs. When your heart is lower than your feet it doesn’t have to pump as hard to return blood from the lower body. Your resting heart rate will fall and after 5 minutes you’ll feel relaxed and recharged.
Legs Up The Wall is for everyone including beginners, pregnant women and new mamas. You don’t need a yoga mat- just a wall or a chair. If you’re pregnant and you feel light headed or breathless, stop. Instead sit on a chair or the couch and elevate your feet with a pile of cushions on the coffee table (great for getting rid of cankles).
- If you’re using a blanket and an eye pillow, have them close by. Sit on the floor with your right hip close to the wall. Using your hands to support you, lean back, swing your legs up onto the wall and slowly ease your shoulders and head down onto the floor.
- If your hamstrings are tight, wriggle away from the wall and bend your knees a little so that your buttocks is on the floor.
- Drape a blanket over your legs if you like.
- Put your eye pillow or eye mask on and close your eyes.
- Rest your hands on your belly. After pregnancy, it’s soothing to reconnect with this area but also a reminder to breathe into your belly.
- Lay here for about 5 minutes (stay for longer if it feels good and your feet haven’t fallen asleep).
Best time to do it:
- After your put your baby to bed.
- Once your baby has good head control, sit your baby on your belly with their back against your legs (support them with your hands).
- While you’re breastfeeding.
- Before you go to sleep, lie on your bed and put your legs up the wall.
3. Gentle Stretching
After birth, the general rule in regards to returning to exercise is 6 weeks for a vaginal delivery and 8 weeks for a c- section. But gentle stretching isn’t in the same category as running or going back to the gym.
Birth, sitting for hours feeding your baby, walking with your baby in a carrier and lack of sleep can leave your lower back, hips, neck, shoulders and wrists very tight and sore. Gentle stretching can help to ease your pain and help you cope with sleep deprivation.
If your baby wants to be held, do my Baby Wearing Yoga sequence with your baby in a carrier or wrap HERE.
You can ease back into yoga when you feel ready. Yin Yoga will give you an incredible stretch and recharge your batteries. Going to a yoga class may not be possible, but doing a class online while your baby naps or with them playing alongside you is a good option. Check out Yoga Glo
Best time to do it:
- While your baby is asleep in a carrier or wrap.
- When your baby is napping.
- Ask your partner, a friend or family member to look after your baby for an hour.
- While your baby is asleep in the pram, walk to a park or the beach and stretch in the shade while you get some fresh air.
- If your baby is awake, do yoga with them on a rug beside you while they soak up their surroundings. Check out my Baby Yoga sequences on my YouTube channel for some fun for them too.
4. Essential Oils
Instead of reaching for coffee when you have a 3pm slump, use essential oils for an instant pick- me- up.
Place a drop of peppermint, wild orange and frankincense in the palms of your hand, rub them together, close your eyes (otherwise the oils will sting your eyes) then cup your hands over your nose and inhale deeply. Then rub your hands on the back of your neck (wash your hands thoroughly before you pick up your baby).
Best time to do it:
- Whenever and wherever you need a pick- me- up. Carry them in your nappy bag so they’re always on hand.
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5. Ask for help
You know the saying, “It takes a village to raise a child”? Well it also take a village to raise a mama. Filling your cup isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity. In the first year of mamahood, this doesn’t mean going for a pedicure or buying a scented candle. It’s the small things that recharge your batteries so you can get up to your baby multiple times a night and still be a loving partner, sister and friend.
Have the courage to ask your partner, a friend or family member to take your baby for a walk while you have a shower and wash your hair, do a 20 minute yoga nidra, do some stretching or go for a walk. It’s not selfish, it’s a necessity. It might help if you think of it as a way for someone else to spend some quality time with your baby without you looking over their shoulder.
There’s always something to do as a mama; cleaning, washing, laundry, cooking etc. but it can wait. Use the small pockets of time throughout your day for self- care. Rather than scrolling facebook or instagram, do a yoga nidra or enjoy a hot cup of tea. Make YOU a priority.
If you’re pregnant, start building your village now. Create a postnatal plan and have a think about who you can call on for help.
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